Every guy wants a girl comfortable in her own skin and body. Showing your insecurities will only turn a guy off or scare them away. This has a lot to do with self-improvement as well. Before you allow someone to love you, be sure to ask yourself if you love yourself. Insecurities are something you have to deal with internally before you bring another person into the picture. Do not be afraid to make the first move. Girls, it’s okay to be the first one to start a conversation with a guy, just be confident doing it.